Much of my work this year is in continuing to UnGoodGirl myself — and then translating that transformation to all my peeps.
Listen to this That’s What She Said podcast episode if you’re ready to dive in to ways you can begin freeing yourself from money bullshit, starting right now.
We begin the UnGoodGirl podcast series with two money truths:
1. Part of good girl conditioning requires you to say “I’m not good with money,” whether that’s true or not.
I have watched women who have paid for a house with cash or received $250k grants from NASA or gotten a full-ride scholarship to their college of choice or earned six (or 7!) figures last year say THEY ARE NOT GOOD WITH MONEY.
Consider that ‘I’m not good with money’ is a default that’s installed by good girl conditioning, not AN ACTUAL TRUTH.
2. The default money feelings available to women are shame — WHY AM I SO BAD AT MONEY / FAILING WITH MONEY / SO FAR BEHIND — or guilt — WHY DO I HAVE MONEY AND OTHERS DON’T / WHAT DOES HAVING MONEY SAY ABOUT ME / AM I SECRETLY A MONSTER FOR HAVING X AMOUNT OF MONEY.
Consider that you deserve to enjoy the money you have, or to not beat the everloving shit out of yourself if your money levels aren’t where you’d like them to be. Neither guilt nor shame will help you face, enjoy, or grow your money. 😉
P.S. Money is your friend.